Women — especially in the developed world — are getting married and having kids later than ever before. According to the UN’s World Fertility Report, the worldwide median age of marriage for women is up two years, from 21 in the 1970s to 23 today. In the developed countries, the rise has been from 22 to 26.
In 1960, 70% of American 25-year-old women were married with children. In 2000, only 25% were. In 1970, just 7% of all American 30- to 34-year-olds were unmarried. Today, the number is 22%. In today’s Hungary, 30% of women in their early thirties are single, compared with 6% of their mothers’ generation at the same age. In South Korea, 40% of 30-year-olds are single, compared with 14% only 20 years ago.
Between 1960 and 2000, the percentages of 20-, 25-, and 30-year-olds enrolled in school more than doubled in the US, and enrollment in higher education doubled throughout Europe. The majority of college students are female in the US, UK, France, Germany, Norway, and Australia, and the gender gap is quickly narrowing in more traditional countries like China, Japan, and South Korea. In Denmark, Finland, and France, over 1/2 of all women between 20 and 24 are in school.
In the UK, close to 1/3 of 30-year-old college-educated women are unmarried. In Spain, women now constitute 54% of college students, up from 26% in 1970, and the average age of first birth has risen to nearly 30, which may be a world record.
In the US, the proportion of unmarried 20-somethings living with their parents has declined steadily over the last 100 years, despite rising rents and real estate prices.
A 2005 report from MasterCard finds that women take 4 out of every 10 trips in the Asia-Pacific region — up from 1 in 10 back in the mid-’70s.
Canadian single women are buying homes at twice the rate of single men. The National Association of Realtors reports that in the US last year, single women made up 22% of the real-estate market, compared with only 9% for single men. The median age for first-time female buyers: 32.
Between 1994 and 2004, the number of Japanese women between 25 and 29 who were unmarried soared from 40% to 54%. The number of 30- to 34-year-old females who were unmarried rose from 14% to 27%.
A majority of Japanese single women between 25 and 54 say that they’d be just as happy never to marry.
Under European Communist rule, women tended to marry and have kids early. In the late ’80s, the mean age of first birth in East Germany, for instance, was 25, while the West German average was 28. Tying the knot was the only way to gain independence from parents, since married couples could get an apartment, while singles could not. Furthermore, access to modern contraception, which the state proved either unable or unwilling to produce at affordable prices, was limited. Marriages frequently began as the result of unplanned pregnancies.
Many towns in what used to be East Germany now face a lack of women, as women who excelled in school have moved west for jobs. In some towns, the ratio is just 40 women to 100 men. Women constitute the majority of both high school and college graduates in Poland.
Save Albania, no European country stood at or above replacement levels (2.1 children) in 2000. Three-quarters of Europeans now live in countries with fertility rates below 1.5, and even that number is inflated by a disproportionately high fertility rate among Muslim immigrants. Oddly, the most Catholic European countries — Italy, Spain, and Poland — have the lowest fertility rates, under 1.3. In Japan, fertility rates are about 1.3. Hong Kong, at 0.98 has broken the barrier of one child per woman.
With fewer children, the labor force shrinks, and so do tax receipts. Europe today has 35 pensioners for every 100 workers. By 2050, those 100 may be responsible for 75 pensioners.
By large margins, surveys suggest, US women want to marry and have kids. US fertility rates are lower than replacement level among college-educated women, but are still higher than those of most rich countries (including Sweden and France).
Young women in Vietnam have begun putting off marriage and fertility rates have fallen from 3.8 children in 1998 to 2.1 in 2006.
Fertility rates have dropped below replacement level in several of India’s major cities.
“The New Girl Order,” by Kay S. Hymowitz